My hubby gets up an hour to two earlier than usual. Makes me my food for the day, sometimes runs to the grocery store. Gets the dogs situated, does the dishes, vaccuums and then heads to work. He works his 12 hours, sometimes shops on way home, cooks, cleans more, helps me get into shower or do hot tub, massages whatever hurts, and passes out. On the weekend, he cleans the house fully, fixes stuff around house, does major food shopping and baby shopping! The other weekend, he got me all my hospital stuff. Jammies, UNDERWEAR!, feminine products!, he threw in a sleep mask and earplugs, got me new slippers and robe and itunes gift card. He shaved my legs, painted my toenails and dyed my hair! We weren't sure if I was going in early - he knew I didnt want to be icky! We are so lucky to have amazing husbands. I have had chronic pain and disability, so mine had some training in taking care of me, but he stepped up his game for who he calls his "baby momma"!. I think this is harder on him than me. spends his whole day trying to think of things to make my life easier - brought me a mini fridge up to the bedroom one night when he got home from work - had been thinking about it since 9 am that morning - drove him nuts he had to wait all day!
