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savingbabyrosie

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hey ladies lets talk about SEX!
« on: April 22, 2009 at 08:42 PM »
 ok ladies all here who have placenta previa know that sex is out of the question untill the baby is born and you get the ok to have "relations" with your partner again right? Right.. so I come to you ladies with this question hoping that I'm not the only one with this in there head. When you are feeling a lil frisky and you know intercourse is a no no, what are your other options? By the way that benifit you too. Now the big question is besides giving your partner pleasure that only he can enjoy....is anal out of the question as well?  I mean will it make you have those contractions that your doctor don't want you to have? Will it irrate the placenta and cervix and cause some bleeding? I really want to hear what you ladies think. Lol I know it sounds crazy but if there's a will then why not try it IF it is safe. Lol I just don't want to go to my doctor and be like " uh I know you told me no intercorse but can I have anal sex with my husban". I think that's a lil too  much info to be sharing with him. Aaaaah there I got it out of my system...thanks for reading hope I made you all laugh. And thank you to all for the incredible support
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Re: hey ladies lets talk about SEX!
« Reply #1 on: April 22, 2009 at 10:04 PM »
I know when I was put on "vaginal rest" I was specifically told no orgasm either because that causes spasms in the uterus and can cause contractions and, before we were sure I did not have previa, could cause the placenta to bleed or tear away from the cervix, so I would guess that any "release" for you is bad for baby. I am not sure if the act of anal would disrupt anything, but you enjoying it would and so u might as well just take care of him another way, because u r gonna get left out in the cold, so to speak. I wanted to know about orgasm specifically so I asked, but I can see why u would not want to get THAT personal with ur dr! lol   Fyreflye

savingbabyrosie

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Re: hey ladies lets talk about SEX!
« Reply #2 on: April 23, 2009 at 12:48 AM »
Thanks for the advice I guess I am the one let out in the cold but I think after all the waiting and wanting it will be all worth it when I'm finally united with my baby girl. Nothing in this world is more important to me than her right now. Even though I'm going through this she is truly a blessing from god. Keep em' cookin ladies and for mommys on bed rest hang in there. Nothing is more important than the lil blessing you hold inside you.
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